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Story: The Manager And The Worker


One day a construction supervisor from 6th floor of building was calling a worker working on the ground floor. Because of construction noice, the worker on ground floor did not hear his supervisor calling.

Then, to draw the attention of worker, the supervisor threw a 10 rupee note from up which fell right around in front of the worker.

The worker picked up the 10 rupee note, put it in his pocket & continued with his work.

Again to draw the attention of worker, the supervisor now threw 500 rupee note & the worker did the same, picked 500 rupee note, put it in his pocket & started doing his job.

Now to draw attention of the worker, the supervisor picked a small stone & threw on worker. The stone hit exactly the worker head. This time the worker looked up & the supervisor communicated with the worker.

This story is same as of our life. Lord from up wants to communicate with us, but we are busy doing our worldly jobs. Then God gives us small gifts & we just keep it without seeing from where we got it.

Then God gives us amounts (gifts) & we are the same. Just keep the gifts without seeing from where it came & without thanking God. We just say we are LUCKY.

Then when we are hit with a small stone, which we call problems, then we look up & we communicate with God.

So every time we get gifts, we should thank God immediately, and not wait till we are hit by a small stone, and then communicate with God
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Story - The Cute Student Counts the Apples
Story - Everyone is unique
Story - The Perspective Understanding
Story - The Millionaire and the 3 Person
Story - The Lawyer and the Farmer :)
Story – The Monkey business :)
Story - The Balloon seller and the Kid
Story - Mistake of Senior Executive
Story - Giving your 100 %
Story - The Officer's inspection :)
Story - Dad & Me

The Donkey in the Well




One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey. He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down. A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up. As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!



MORAL : Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up. Remember the five simple rules to be happy: 1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive. 2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happens. 3. Live simply and appreciate what you have. 4. Give more. 5. Expect less from people but more from yourself. You have two choices... smile and close this page, or pass this along to someone else to share the lesson


Story - The Teacher and the Tomatoes
Story - Old German Dog
Story – The Two Wolves
Story - Respect follows service
Story - Alexender - The Three Wishes
Story - Salty coffee
Story - Secret of success
Story – the Mind Set
Story - The Two brothers
Story - Presence of mind
Story - The missing watch
Story - Cockroach theory for self development
Story – The wife and the window

180 Words to Describe Yourself




Describe Yourself for Online Dating, Job Interviews, Resumes and More

Learning how to describe yourself accurately is something we usually have to put some effort into. This seems to be especially true in most western cultures where being honest about our skills, qualities, and attributes can be confused with being arrogant, "blowing your own trumpet," and being excessively self indulgent.
If we do learn to describe ourselves, we can often forgo self confidence training by being our own confidence guru and simply acknowledging and appreciating our own positive qualities.

It's OK to Know What Our Positive Qualities Are

From my experience of delivering training programs and seminars on improving confidence and self esteem, whenever participants are asked to state just five of their best qualities, a hushed embarrassment usually fills the room. Then, "I don't know" is the most common response.
Conversely, we're all a lot better at listing our faults and failings and can get onto that task without any difficulty. It's like most of us haven't even dared to think about the question, "What's good about me?" -- if that's you, then it's even more important that you read this

Words to Describe Yourself (Adjectives)

Because we can all identify with 90% of these adjectives in some situation or other, I suggest picking 10 - 15 words that describe how you are most of the time, regardless of the situation. It might be helpful to think about who are you when you are on your own, doing your own thing. There will be very few other people who will identify the exact same combination, because we're all different.
Ready? Scroll down for list of 180 adjectives to help you describe yourself.

Positive Qualities

Inventive
Exciting
Thoughtful
Powerful
Practical
Proactive
Productive
Professional
Quality
Quick
Balanced
Achiever
Knowledgeable
Leader
Literate
Logical
Initiator
Original
Outgoing
Particular
Patient
Active
Positive
Consistent
Compassionate
Incredible
Independent
With integrity
Mediator
Emotional
Cheerful
Forgiving
Sensuous
Generous
Sporty
Devoted
Candid
Rebellious
Cooperative
Industrious
Interesting
Racy
Meditative
Understanding
Quirky
Quixotic
Honest
Assertive
Attentive
Direct
Broad-minded
Committed
Conscientious
Dynamic
Hard worker
Persistent
Mature
Methodical
Motivated
Objective
Tenacious
Sociable
Friendly
Realistic
Reliable
Resourceful
Respectful
Responsible
Creative
Confident
Traditional
Trustworthy
Unconventional
Unique
Ecclectic

More Positive Qualities

Optimistic
Accomplished
Adept
Analytical
Articulate
Artistic
Self-disciplined
Controversial
Individual
Tolerant
Naive
Green
Unselfish
Sophisticated
Stable
Strong
Successful
Tactful
Talented
Team player
Fun
Intelligent
Changeable
Passionate
Intense
Intuitive
Upbeat
Vibrant
Funny
Constructive
Customer-oriented
Dependable
Direct
Loyal
Competitive
Political
Social consciousness
Modest
Courageous
Enthusiastic
Enterprising
Entrepreneurial
Facilitator
Focused
Genuine
Open-mindedness
Wise
Sensitive
Sense of humor
Sensible
Sincere
Skilled
Solid
Communicative
Helpful
Fast
Responsible
Results-driven
Results-oriented
Self-reliant
Organised
Knowledgeable
Logical
Personable
Pleasant
Flexible
Adaptable
Persuasive
Perceptive
Insightful
Trustworthy
Easy going
Good listener
Imaginative
Warm
Ambitious
Diplomatic
Curious
Leader
​Source: HubPages

A Simple Story of True Love.





"I am a doctor working at a little clinic. At about 8:15am on a Tuesday morning, an old man in his 80's walked into my clinic to get out some stitches he received a few days before.
It was a very busy morning, and I asked him to please sit and wait. He told me he was in a rush, as he had a very important engagement at 9am he couldn't miss.  As he sat there,  I couldn't help noticing that he kept cecking his watch. I decided to treat him since the doctor in charge was extremely busy, and I knew it would take at least an hour until he could see him.

I took off his bandages and saw that the wound was healing nicely. While I was gently pulling out the stitches, I asked him where he was off to that was more important than taking out stitches.  Was it also with a doctor?


"No," said the old man, "not a doctor. I am going to have breakfast with my wife, who is in the hospital."
"Why was she hospitilized, if I may ask?" 
"She's been there for a few years now," he answered. "she has Alzheimer's and needs constant care."
As I finished taking out the stitches, I asked the man if his wife would be worried if he were late to their breakfast.
"No," he said quietly, "and she never will. She hasn't recognized me in over five years."

I was astounded by this and just had to ask: "And you go to her every morning although she doesn't know who you are?"
The man smiled, put his hand on mine and said: "She may not know who I am, but I know who she is, and I remember for both of us."  And he shook my hand, thanked me and left me standing there, my body shaking with sudden emotion. 

image of old couple on a bench

"This," I said to myself, "this is what true love, movie love, is all about. This is what I want for myself." And I vowed, at that moment, to find such love.

Side note: For myself, I learned from it that happiness is not only in accepting good, but also showing that you can accept the bad and turn it into something sweet
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Story - Art of Living without recognition
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Story - The Family Picnic and The Traffic Signal
Story - The Wow Apporach

Parenting - Reasons Behind Children's Unexpected Behavior




​    1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate​ behavior.
    2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you have lost them.
    3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.
    4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.
    5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don't let them chose what they want.
    6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.
    7. If your child does not respect other people's feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.
    8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehavior and you give little attention to good behavior.
    9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don't successfully complete it.
    10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
    11. If your child is openly defiant, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don't follow through.
    12. If your child is secretive, it is because they don't trust that you won't blow things out of proportion.
    13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behavior.
    14. If your child doesn't listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to make decisions.
    15. If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right.

Humor: Best Training Courses for MEN & WOMEN





​​The Best learning Courses for WOMEN

  1. The Difficult Art of How to Keep Quiet!
  2. Banking - Most difficult lesson to learn ... How to Deposit Money - entire procedure!
  3. Space Management - How to Keep some space for husband's things in the bedroom cupboard!
  4. Communication Skill full course - From smile to tears!
  5. Communication advance course - Things what you want... get it quietly..
  6. Driving Skill... How to park car in reverse gear!
  7. ​Te​
    ​l​
    phone Skill... The art of to be brief!
  8. 8 Footwear skill... Wear sandals what you buy!
  9. 9 Oil and Petrol Basics... Car needs these two things!
  10. 10 Self Control...How not to feel  Bad!

​​The Best learning Courses for MEN

  1. How to keep Ice in the Ice tray and keep back in the fridge... step by step method!
  2. Round Table Discussion... Toilet paper do not grow on Tree!
  3. Live Demonstration... Difference between laundry basket and Floor!
  4. Full Methodical Training ... Do not try to convert house up side down when you are looking for important paper, look at the right place!
  5. Health Watch Discussion... To bring Flowers for the wife is not injurious to your health!
  6. Driving Lesson...How to ask someone to find right address!
  7. Driving Lesson 2...When someone is parking a car... how to control your tongue!
  8. Comparative Study...The difference between Wife and Mother!
  9. Self Control and Anger Management... How to control yourself  When you go out for the shopping with your wife!
  10. Brain Exercise... How not to forget birthdays and anniversaries!

How Important is a Father



​ 
 
How important
is a father in one's life?


Mothers are the Soul of our homes... whereas fathers are their very existence.

But have we ever given much thought to the nature of this existence?

Little is written or said about fathers, even though we understand their value in our lives.

We hardly ever hear anyone talk about fathers...
Mothers are made of an ocean of tears. Fathers are a wall of self-control.

Mothers relieve their pain through tears, fathers only console, and it is harder to console than it is to cry.

Surely the candlestick is hotter than the flame, yet it is always the flame which gets the praise.

We remember mother as the one who took care of our daily needs, yet how easily we forget the father, who arrange finances for daily needs!

Mothers can cry uncontrollably in public, n fathers sob in their pillow at night.

Mothers are allowed to cry; fathers can never be seen in tears.

We can notice the patches on his shoes. His tattered vest is a sure sign of the struggle he gone through. He will buy new pairs of expensive jeans for his children, while an old pair of pyjamas will do for him.

While children don't blink an eyelid when they spend 1000s of Rs in a beauty salon, yet in their own home, a father may be using talcum soap.

When father is ill, he does not rush to the doctor. He does not fear his illness
but is afraid in case the doctor tells him to rest for a month, as there will be no other bread earner in the family.

Whether he can afford it
or not, he works hard to get his son admitted to an engineering or medical course.
Despite the shortage of funds he sends money regularly to his child at university even some children go on a gala spending spree on the same day the money arrives.

Father is the existence of the home. The home is secure from outsiders when a father, in the form of its manger, is alive. He holds the position of the chief executive of the household. He sees, repairs and cares for jobs around the house.

When you announce your exam results, it seems that mother is the closest person to you because she takes you in her arms, praises you and blesses you, but no one notices the father who quietly slips away to the sweet shop to get sweets to distribute among family and friends...

Salute to all the Fathers

Courtesy: Srinivasan M S

7 Quotes by Ratan Tata on Professionalism



  1. I admire people who are very successful. But if that success has been achieved through too much ruthlessness, then I may admire that person, but I can't respect him.
  2. Apart from values and ethics which I have tried to live by, the legacy I would like to leave behind is a very simple one – that I have always stood up for what I consider to be the right thing, and I have tried to be as fair and equitable as I could be.
  3. Barriers to innovation are usually in the mind.
    Words of Ratan Tata
  4. What worries me is that the threshold of acceptability or the line between acceptability and non-acceptability in terms of values, business ethics, etc, is blurring
  5. The strong live and the weak die. There is some bloodshed, and out of it emerges a much leaner industry, which tends to survive.
  6. I have been constantly telling people to encourage people, to question the unquestioned and not to be ashamed to bring up new ideas, new processes to get things done.
  7.  I view risk as an ability to be where no one has been before. I view risk to be an issue of thinking big, something we did not do previously. We did everything in small increments so we always lagged behind. But the crucial question is: can we venture putting a man on the moon or risk billions of rupees on a really way-out, advanced project in, say, superconductors? Do you restrict your risk to something close to your heart?

Story: The Sailor Ship Broken in Storm



The story of a sailor whose ship was broken in a storm:
The only survivor of a shipwreck was washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him. Every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements, and to store his few possessions.
One day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, with smoke rolling up to the sky. He felt the worst had happened, and everything was lost. He was stunned with disbelief, grief, and anger. He cried out, "God! How could you do this to me?"
Early the next day, he was awakened by the sound of a ship approaching the island! It had come to rescue him! "How did you know I was here?" asked the weary man of his rescuers. "We saw your smoke signal," they replied….
The Moral of This Story: 
It's easy to get discouraged when things are going bad, but we shouldn't lose heart, because God has His plans for our lives, even in the midst of our pain and suffering. Remember that the next time your little hut seems to be burning to the ground. It just may be a smoke signal that summons the Grace of God.



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Story - Old German Dog
Story – The Two Wolves
Story - Respect follows service
Story - Alexender - The Three Wishes
Story - Salty coffee
Story - Secret of success
Story – the Mind Set
Story - The Two brothers
Story - Presence of mind
Story - The missing watch
Story - Cockroach theory for self development
Story – The wife and the window

Soul Sustenance: Soul Power over Role Power




Every act that we are involved in throughout the day is made possible or real by two entities - role and soul working in conjunction with each other. Although, it is a spiritual fact that the soul is the master and makes the role function, without the soul the role cannot function; while playing any role in our day-to-day life we tend to forget this fact and our entire focus falls on the role that is to be played, forgetting that by doing that, we bring down the probability of success of that role in our personal or professional life.

Focusing positively on the soul and its components while playing the role fills the role with soul power and focusing on the role and its components while playing the role fills the role with something you could call role power.

We need to create a balance between the role and the soul and a balance in using both role and soul power to bring about the success of the role, the role could be of any type. Even a project that you have to work on in the office which is going to last for a month is an example of a temporary role you have to play. There are many other examples of roles - getting your child's homework done, preparing food for the entire family, doing charity work at the club together, taking part in an extracurricular activity in school or college, etc.

Any such or other role will consist of some or all of these components - various tasks, interaction with people or relationships, mediums like wealth and other objects, time, knowledge of everything connected with the role including the components that make up the role, etc.

All these components are physical in nature and make up the role. The power that these components possess makes up what we call role power. Now, what happens is that as soon as we step into the role each day or on a particular day, obviously our aim is to bring about success of the role, but to achieve that, our entire focus falls on using the power of the role, neglecting the immense potential that soul power possesses.

We spend our day and night in streamlining the role components for the well being of the role, not realizing that this purpose could be more easily achieved, if the focus is more on using soul power, obviously without neglecting role power (without which the purpose cannot be achieved).

The power of inner silence or the silence of my mind - Silence is a power. The fewer the thoughts in my mind and the more powerful, positive, peaceful and focused they are, the more my mind will contribute to the success of the role on a subtle level. My silence is regularly tested when faced with negative situations or obstacles. The more successful I am in maintaining this stage in such situations, the more is my treasure of silence collected over a period of time and the more positive the influence of this silence will be on my physical role and the success of various tasks connected with the role.
The power of inner and outer carefreeness, happiness and contentment - Happiness not only inside but also giving others an experience of the same through my face, my eyes, my words and actions full of lightness and enthusiasm, etc. while coming in contact with them. Ensuring I am content with myself and others and also others are content with me. Regular periods of discontentment or unhappiness either within me or in my relationships affect the success of my role adversely. 



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People Don't Change Unless They Want To


People don't change unless they want to. Unless something in their life prompts it. You have to learn to see people for who they really are, right from the get-go. If you don't like something about someone, or how they're treating you, don't expect that they're going to change just for you. It's who they are. Expecting any different only leads to frustration, disappointment and more hurt or disrespect. Not worth it!


There aren't many things in life that aren't possible, but one of them is that people who don't want to change can't be helped to be changed by us. There are many in our lives that we know that seem to be willingly undertaken by life and its circumstances. We must all learn that though there are those in our lives who we feel aren't getting everything out of life that they possibly can, and are living nowhere near to where they may potentially be, there is nothing that we can do for these people if they don't want change within themselves.

The best way for us to help these people is to try to live as an example of what following your heart can do. Though there are many who need help in ways that we can't help them, we can still help by sending our prayers and positive thoughts their way as much as possible. We must also be willing to let go of those who are inevitably headed towards destruction, because if that is what they desire in their hearts, there is truly nothing that we can do to change them, they must first want change in their own hearts.alt




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HEALTH: Brushing Your Teeth Is Good For Your Heart


How could your dental and heart health ever be connected? Well, according to new research conducted in England, there is a rather strong connection between the ways you care for your pearly whites and your chance of suffering a heart attack.
  
The study, conducted by the Scottish Health Survey, examined over 11,000 individuals of all ages to identify a possible correlation between dental and heart health. Along with information on their dental bill of health, the subjects were asked to provide information about their other lifestyle habits, such as smoking, physical activity, and health routines.
 
Of the group, about 62 percent said they visited the dentist every six months, and another 71 percent said that they brushed their teeth twice a day. This information lead the researchers to conclude that those that admitted to brushing their teeth less frequently had an extra 70 percent risk of heart disease or heart attack.
 
"Our results confirmed and further strengthened the suggested association between oral hygiene and the risk of cardiovascular disease," says Richard Watt DDS from the University College London. According to the researchers, the results of the study were not entirely surprising, but rather confirmation of a decade-long hypothesis on the connection between dental diseases and cardiovascular health.
 
In yet another study conducted in the United States, it was found that as people's gum health decreased, so did the rate at which plaque built up in their arteries. This study showed that the chances of contracting a dangerous condition called atherosclerosis, or the narrowing of the arteries around the heart, decreased when subjects brushed their teeth and had a clean bill of gum and oral health.
 

 
But scientifically, how are gum disease and heart disease connected? The bacteria that develops in your mouth when you have gum disease contributes to atherosclerosis in that it adds to the level of inflammation of the arteries and triggering a biological reaction that narrows space these important passage ways. Once you have atherosclerosis, your chances mild to certain that you will experience a heart attack and possibly even stroke.
 
So the next time you worry about your visit to the dentist, or need a reason to floss your teeth, remember that caring for your oral and gum health properly could dramatically decrease your chances of heart disease and other serious conditions. Make brushing and flossing a regular habit, and you are sure to be on the way to a heart-healthy and happy self!

Interesting Psychology Facts




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Couples who spend at least 10 minutes a day laughing together are more likely to have a stronger relationship.

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Any friendship that exceeds the 7 yr mark is more likely to last an entire lifetime.

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You can judge a lot about a person's character by what they laugh at.

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A lot of problems in the world would disappear if we talked to each other instead of talking about each other.

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Kids who play video games tend to have better hand-eye coordination, a better memory, and better problem solving skills.

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A person is more likely to use " K " in a text message when they have no interest in talking to you.

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75% of women ask questions in which they already know the answer to. This is why it's best to simply tell her the truth.

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People who talk to themselves are more likely to have a high I.Q.

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If you chew gum when you study a subject and then chew the same flavor when you the take the test it can help you remember.

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Your body is actually designed to get 4 hours of sleep twice per day instead of 8 hours once!

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Over thinking can cause physical and mental fatigue, it may also lead to chronic depression.

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Ironically, sometimes the people who don't talk to you are the one's who really want to.

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Psychology says, the best things in life are usually found when you are not looking for them.

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According to old myths, the inability to fall asleep at night means you're awake in someone's dream

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Lack of sleep makes it difficult to control emotions which is why people are more likely to cry or laugh uncontrollably at night.

Have A Great Life



We all know money is very important. But money is not so important that we do not utilize it even when we need it most but keep it in bank for someone else to enjoy. No one knows what future holds for us.

A British tycoon passed away.
He left for his widow 1 Billion Pounds in the bank.
The widow remarried one of her husband's young employees.
The young employee said,

"All this while I thought I was working for my boss.
I now realize that my boss was all the time working for me!"
Moral of the Story

It is more important to live longer than to have more wealth.
• Strive to have a strong and healthy body.
• In an expensive cell phone, 75% of the functions are useless.
• In an expensive car, 75% of the speed is not needed.• In a big luxurious house, 75% of the space remains unoccupied or unutilized.
• In a whole wardrobe of clothes, 75% of them are rarely worn.• Out of whole life's earnings, 75% stays behind for other people to use.
• In every human being, 75% of the talent is not utilized
So, how to make full use of our 25%?
• Go for medical check-up even when you feel fit.• Drink more water even if you're not thirsty.
• Let go your ego, whenever you can.• Give in even if you are right.
• Be humble even if you are very powerful.• Be contented even if you are not rich.
Have a Great Life !