Fear is one of the major blocking obstacles against your success.
You tend to compromise with your circumstances and prefer to continue
your status quo condition because you are afraid of making decisions.
Since you lack in courage you cannot move forward in your life with
liberty.
On
the other hand successful people are those who take risks in life.
Successful people understand that taking risks will lead them experience
new horizons in their field, will give them more vision
and more confidence, give them wisdom and success by exposing them
to more and more challenges and consequently help them achieve their
dreams. Such people keep taking new risks in order to achieve what they
want to achieve. Whenever there is a doubtful situation they take the
next baby step in order to determine whether it is fine to move
ahead. In case they fail, they take one step back and re-determine
their direction using their analytical skills.
So
if you would like to live a successful life, you must defeat your
fears. The reasons for being under the clouds of fear might be because
of several doubts or unanswered questions in your mind. In this
article, I have compiled and answered a few of such queries in order
to boost your confidence level:
Question-1: Do I have enough info in making this decision?
Answer:
You may or may not have the full information as of now. However you
can gather all the facts by consulting the right professionals, by
reading books, by discussing with your friends and well-wishers, by
posting your questions to online forums, by studying the market and by
taking advice from experienced people. Once you have collected all
the information, write it on a piece of paper; positive points on one
side and negative points on another side. Now read them slowly with
full focus. Once done, you are all set for making the decision.
Question-2: What if I fail?
Answer:
Consider the worst case scenario as this gives you inner strength and
makes you prepare for it. However if the worst case as per your
thinking is a serious disaster then reduce your risks by reducing your
goals, your investment, energies, efforts etc. Change some of the
points from your original plan and re-asses the worst case.
Question-3: Do I have the capability to do it:
Answer: See if you can learn it by reading, training, counseling or brain storming. Believe in your inner powers. List down the capabilities required for a specific task and start polishing yourself in each domain one by one. This might take some time but once you learn and polish your skills you will be able to make wonders in your domain.
Answer: See if you can learn it by reading, training, counseling or brain storming. Believe in your inner powers. List down the capabilities required for a specific task and start polishing yourself in each domain one by one. This might take some time but once you learn and polish your skills you will be able to make wonders in your domain.
Question-4: What will people say?
Answer: People will comment any way. It's your life and you have all the authority to do what you want to do in order to achieve what you want to achieve. Don't worry about social factors, instead focus on your plans and decisions. Evil social factors will die their death one by one once you start producing the results. Strengthen your thoughts, avoid the unnecessary criticism and you will be able to set new trends in your domain.
Answer: People will comment any way. It's your life and you have all the authority to do what you want to do in order to achieve what you want to achieve. Don't worry about social factors, instead focus on your plans and decisions. Evil social factors will die their death one by one once you start producing the results. Strengthen your thoughts, avoid the unnecessary criticism and you will be able to set new trends in your domain.
Question-5: Is anyone else afraid of same thing?
Answer: Yes everyone is afraid of failures but only bold people make bold moves to accomplish things. Remember, common people see things while they are happening whereas smart people make things happen.
Answer: Yes everyone is afraid of failures but only bold people make bold moves to accomplish things. Remember, common people see things while they are happening whereas smart people make things happen.
Question-6: What If I am trapped in tragic Situation:
Answer: To overcome a tragic
fearful situation is to think of a genius person and imagine how he
would have acted under the same condition. You will definitely get a
new idea to try.
Closing
my article by emphasizing one more time to throw your fears away,
convert your risks into new opportunities, execute your plans and live
like an independent and prosperous soul. Your inner confidence, your guts and your will power can make things happen. If others can do it you can do it too so believe in the power of now and go ahead and grab the success.
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Junaid
Tahir is a UAE based Telecommunications Manager. He is a passionate
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