The first step on the road to success is revising your purpose to one that can be achieved at a slower speed than the speed we might see others working at.
Competition is not at all an un-required energy in mainstream society but when competition is accompanied by or mixed with comparisons, it becomes negative or self-harming. So compete, competition is healthy but do not compare, comparisons are unhealthy.
Ensure that while moving towards the destination of success it is important to set smaller goals to be achieved instead of targeting directly at the bigger cause.
Another important feature of a relaxed journey to success is satisfying people who are a part of the journey and not developing cold relations with them.
The road to success is filled with major changes which we as travelers on it need to be able to adapt to and face, without the changes affecting us negatively.
There are people who are very weak at adapting to change because of lack of spiritual strength and the tendency to look at the changes negatively. It is said at the Brahma Kumaris that the one who moulds becomes real gold or valuable or in other words spiritually pure or powerful. So, The ability to mould or the ability to change as per the different milestones one sees on the road to success is a spiritual power which we need to fill ourselves with.
As with traffic signals, what is required is the ability to stop on the road to success on passing certain signposts.
These signposts convey to us that crossing them at that moment of time at the speed at which we are, will cause an accident in the form of an ill physical body or a broken relationship. Also, they may cause a stressful mind or a harmed professional or personal role which is being used to reach the destination of success in any sphere of life.
Another spiritual ability is the ability to inculcate new creative and constructive habits as per the demands of what side-scenes are seen on the road to success.
Like any other journey, sometimes it is also important not to get stuck in these side scenes.
We need to ignore or let go of them and carry on with determination on the road to success with our complete focus on the destination of success which our whole journey is dedicated to.
Challenges are good; they bring out the inner powers and help in tapping the hidden potential inside you. But at the same time, a life which eats, sleeps and breathes challenges and goals is the wrong road to success.This can bring the journey to the destination of success to a standstill.