Einstein said that you cannot solve a problem with the same mind that created it. You must go out of the mind in order to solve it.
If you only change your conscious mind, you will never be able to solve the problem, it’s as simple as that. In order to ensure any change, you have to change your beliefs about yourself and those beliefs are stored in your subconscious mind.
It’s not just about changing your beliefs, it’s about replacing them with new powerful idea. Think of a game. When you remove a block, the tower becomes unstable, until eventually it collapses completely. The same can be said about the subconscious mind, you can’t simply remove the negative thought, and you need a new thought to hold that space. That new thought is your opportunity for a strong, positive belief. And with that strong, positive belief come, permanent positive change will come!
You have to learn this simple thing to make your total life successful. Understand this very clearly. Otherwise you will go on moving in one circle and never reach your destination and get to your aim.