Everyone strives to get self approval on the basis of the approval he/she gets from others. Very few can live without approval from others. One big service you can give to another is to develop self approval in the other. And add to it the feeling that you approve. Unfortunately many live with secret self disapproval.

When you make such a person feel that he/she is appreciated and approved, the person’s own self disapproval will get reduced.

When a person is ill, do everything to make him/her feel that he/she is appreciated and respected. Very few need sympathy; in fact many feel unhappy at sympathy. But if you convey the message of approval, the person will be very happy.

When a person is seriously sick, when you visit that person, make him/her approve himself/herself. First sincerely feel that approval and then tell it.

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