By Junaid Tahir: Everyone one wants to stay happy in life but only small fraction of people put efforts on the factors which ...
Everyone
one wants to stay happy in life but only small fraction of people put
efforts on the factors which can bring happiness. Some factors are
required to work on and some factors to be avoided... In this article 6
factors are discussed which are recommended to be avoided in order to
achieve extreme heights of happiness and peace of mind.
Conspiring
This is one of the extreme ethical crimes I can think of. You conspire
when you plan secretly (alone or with others) against someone to do
something which is harmful and unlawful. In the court of humanity
this is a punishable act and nature always takes revenge form you for the things you do against humanity.
Criticizing:
Criticizing:
While healthy criticism
helps improve things but most of the time you criticize with no
clear positive intention. The more you criticize this way, the more
you pollute your own mind and build up negative powers which back fires in terms of added stress due to negativity.
Also criticizing is an indication that you are not part of solutions
instead you are part of problems. So if you would like to live a happy life then no negative criticism please.
Cursing:
Cursing
is opposite of blessing which means the one who curses is away from
blessing. Both cursing and blessing are indirectly proportional to each other. The more you curse people the more you make yourself away from them and also from the blessings of Almighty. Control your thoughts to control your tongue. Daily audit at the end of each day will help improve your habit of cursing. This will improve your mental health and strengthen your inner powers.
Complaining:
Your complaining attitude reduces your social circle. When you start complaining about circumstances, about people around you and so on, you give up your energies to strive and eventually you weaken your relations with others and also lose your grip on your goals. This act degrades you in your social group and eventually you lose respect. Try speaking positive or stay silent.
Complicating
Mind
your own business. If you can't help don't complicate their
problems. Don't confuse people by raising complicated questions.
Speak up only if you have a positive advice and neat intention.
Remember, giving advice
is a matter of honesty so put yourself in others' shoes; listen
empathically and then advice in the best interest of your companion.
Corrupting:
Corruption is a phenomenon of moral or economical deviation from the ideal. Corruption
is a world-wide social disease which has spread like jungle fire and
impacting millions of lives every day consequently polluting every
society. May it be financial corruption, Ethical corruption or
Relationship corruption, it is consistently polluting societies and
families. The more you earn with illicit acts the more you push
yourself away from the state of contentment. Illegal acts always have
reaction exactly equal or more than the magnitude of the actions you
do.
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