Professor Richard Wiseman, a psychologist says: Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experienced ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapers
asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.

Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research. Over the years I interviewed them, monitored their lives and had them take part in various experiments.

I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether their disparity in luck was due to differences in their ability to spot opportunities.
I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them
to look through it and tell me how many photographs were inside.
I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying…

"If you have seen this, tell the experimenter and win $50."

This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky people tended to spot it.

Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected. As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else.
They go to gatherings intent on finding their perfect partner and miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and miss other types of jobs.

Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles.
They are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient, "never say die" attitude that transforms bad luck into good.


So, here are four tips for becoming lucky:

Listen to your gut instincts – they are often right.
  • Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine
  • Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
  • Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or phone call.
Remember that the happiest people in the world are not those who
have no problems, but those who learn to enjoy things that are less than perfect.
 ~ Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire

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3 comments:

  1. True agreed I am 74, never succeeded in lotteries. But still life goes on dear. I want a job to spend time.

    Thanks
    Srk Nair

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  2. Sir, Its good to notice that you are actively reading articles and spending time on good stuff. I do not recommend people to do lottery stuff as it is pure form of gambling. Gambling encourages people to believe in short cuts without any efforts which imbalances the society. While it may not be possible to get a job at this age, you may want to get engaged with social activities in your area. I believe that time spent to help others is the time well spent​...

    Best wishes.

    Regards

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  3. Thanks janab this is the difference between Asian countries and European, the latter involve old citizen in administrative matters. I am thank to God to be able to doing social work which will not make me earn but spend.
    Thanks for your response.

    Thanks and regards

    Srk Nair New Delhi - 110087

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